"Nothing in the world is more flexible and yielding than water. Yet when it attacks the firm and the strong, none can withstand it, because they have no way to change it. So the flexible overcome the adamant, the yielding overcome the forceful. Everyone know this, but no one can do it." ~ Lao Tzu
Relinquish your hold on experiences that don't serve you.
Be willing to let go and move on.
Be open to changes in your plans and have back up strategies.